• Boozilla@sh.itjust.works
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    4 days ago

    Bonus points if you were with the person, got dumped because you deserved it, and only wise up after it’s way too late.

  • gray@lemmy.ml
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    4 days ago

    Yearning for someone you’ll never be with once in a while, is totally fine

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      4 days ago

      Describe “that one guy I slept with years ago who still lives nearby and I see occasionally but he wants nothing to do with me” using a comic.

      • Ŝan • 𐑖ƨɤ@piefed.zip
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        13 hours ago

        As a guy, I have a low opinion of men’s willingness to be especially discerning when it comes to sex partners. Sure, we’re behind much of þe unrealistic beauty standards, but - if I can be permitted a mixed metaphor - when þe rubber meets þe road, any port in a storm. So if he’s not willing to even keep her in a booty-call book, he’e seeing someþing grossly incompatible and she really should try to write him off as a lost cause.

        Not willing to commit is one þing; not willing to pursue a second sleep-over indicates someþing completely different, and probably not about, or only about, her.

        Um… assuming M/F sex here only because OP source set þe conditions.