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  • Our system is simply not set up for declining populations.

    I’d like to think the declining birth rates are a natural correction, and that with fewer people, real estate will come down, and tuitition will drop, etc., but I think the problem isn’t scare resources, it’s wealth inequality.

    And if we decided to move back into liveable cities, we’d have plenty of resources.



  • Yup. That’s exactly the play.

    I was hoping for a more liberal-minded solution, but it probably requires radically smaller communal living, more intergenerational. Even if everything’s paid for, having two kids is a real sacrifice, but triply so if you’re living alone and your grandparents are dead and your parents live an hour away.

    Also check out Britt Hartley’s video on Christian men. Religion is traditionally the place for women to have babies and be communal and shit but Christianity is so besotted with female oppression that the light is turning on in the minds of Christian women: Christian men are NOT safe partners.

    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=VTCMbGBnDh8

    And you’re absolutely right. The terrifying thing is that toopush women into having babies again–at least by force–you have to strip away 100 years of rights and close every avenue and loophole out to an independent life and an independent mind. Just banning abortion is not enough. You have to close schools, forbid employment, ban loans, etc.

    Women, especially you majority-Trump-voting white women: take note.



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    Even in Nordic gay space communist countries where all the needs of mothers are provided by the state, there is a birth rate crisis (met with immigration).

    I think many of us uncomfortable with the dawning reality that achieving the replacement rate of humanity requires oppression of women. Bearing children is an enormous pain in the ass and without pressuring and grooming women into it, we don’t get to the maintenance target of 2.1 babies per woman.

    There are probably ways societies could THEORETICALLY adjust to make child-bearing more emotionally attractive without social coercion, but, fuck, man, society can’t even maintain platonic friendships these days, how are we going to figure out how to have every woman average 2.1 babies?




  • Yeah, the link is there on the vendor’s side, but it doesn’t get back to google, right? I mean, I guess unless they have sharing agreements, which they probably do. Shit. My brain still hasn’t adjusted to modern corporate perfidy.

    As for that hardware ID, I’m kicking it back to the retailer and letting them know they’re going to lose a sale if they don’t address it. If I just disappear, they’re not going to know its a problem. But they’re also a good company otherwise–non-Amazon specialty stores are a treasure–so I’ll just do the work around (probably on a web browser with the new account) if they don’t fix it.





  • I honestly haven’t thought about it too much. I think you can get a cheapie bluetooth watch to send you an alert if its nearby.

    You can probably enable Google’s find my if you want, but then what’s the point of having a secure phone if Google always knows where you are?

    Not too be to defeatist about things–there may be a solution out there for you–but a lot of the conveniences of modern life require trade-offs that we are encouraged to not think about.