Here’s a crazy idea. Maybe videogame characters are separate from you and it doesn’t matter if they’re male, female, non-binary, etc. I always empathized (or didn’t) with characters if I found their problems/feelings relatable. Their sexuality or whatever couldn’t be less important.
That way you’re at work during the week while not doing anything productive for yourself or the company and you then spend your free time actually working for your employer. Great idea.