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Cake day: April 18th, 2025

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  • I can’t control how my coworkers act. I can control how I act. I can’t force my coworkers to adopt a sense of integrity, but I can hold fast to my own. In this way, I try to see those people less as terrible people and more like an immutable part of the job. For example, if you work in sanitation (e.g., picking up trash), it sucks when the weather is bad. But it’s not aggravating–you can’t control the weather, and you don’t blame it for being bad. It’s not a positive thing, but somehow it’s less stressful. (that’s not to say you should dehumanize others, just seeing them as something you can’t control, like the weather).

    That being said, it took me quite a few years in the industry to be able to think this way.