Can someone explain this to me

If i want to have fun i use kde. If i want productivity and keeping devices running smoothly i go xfce. Lately its been more xfce

Could I do it on an old computer running Windows? You should be able to but doing it on linux could be easier

Or rould my modern home computer be the server Possibly but would not recommend it

The computer acting as a server would need to be on, and online all the time for me to access the files? This is correct and also why cloud hosts usually have different locations hosting the same thing to provide backup in case of power down or other problems

Would I be able to stream large files (video, audio, etc.) in real-time? Yes this should be possible but your homes internet or whereever youre keeping the server and its distance from where you access it will change speeds of doing that

Would I need to add an SSD if I use the old PC Not a need, i prefer to but i think opinions on this are mixed

I never liked it tbh. But i also dont really like java much in general so im biast

Crappy jetbrains ide

I have a similar experience, but its like a user base of 200k vs idk how many million on reddit. There wont be an infinite amount of posts until lemmy grows more.

I think only 1 percent of all users on lemmy and reddit post. So its 2k active posters vs 60k active reddit posters (assuming reddit has 6m).

The sorting has been bad i also see dead posts but overall im enjoying lemmy more than i had reddit in the later years (joined 2010).

I thought this was an os written from reactjs

Came from lemmy.world to unilem.org and am enjoying it so far. They are stating they wont defederate