• 28 Posts
  • 962 Comments
Joined 3 years ago
cake
Cake day: June 13th, 2023

help-circle


  • This makes me think of a conversation between my wife and daughter a while back.

    Daughter is angry with her BF and frustrated that he seems oblivious to that

    Wife: “Oh honey, no. It doesn’t work like that. If I’m mad at your dad for something I just have to tell him. If he asks if I’m OK and I say, ‘I’m fine’, he takes that at face value. He’s very literal.”

    Daughter: “Ugh. Doesn’t that frustrate you?”

    Wife: “It was weird at first but once you get used to it it’s actually really nice. You just have to learn to talk to him.”

    Me: “Wait, I did something right?”

    Wife: “You do lots of things right babe.”

    Yeah, I think she likes me.


















  • Long time ago I had the benefit of spending a couple years in banking. Bankers have a very different attitude about money than most people since for a bank, money is the “product.”

    The most valuable thing I learned from that experience was that in order to be in control of my finances, I had to have a clear understanding of what my money is “doing.” Just being able to get that insight has been enough to keep me relatively on top of my book keeping.