You are right that Molly would lag behind in security updates by one version every time, but Molly is currently the only way to get Signal on tablets/other Droids in one account, effectively, as far as I know.

Wise concern. I never tried Beeper, either, despite becoming eligible from the waitlist.

It’s no massively strong recommendation of mine, but File Explorer has been decent. Talk about a name, though, haha.

ik he doesn’t care about consent

That’s it. That’s all your post needed to include. Literally everything else is unnecessary. Your history with your ex is irrelevant to this critical factor.

This is the only piece of information that matters, and it screams, “Hell, no.” This man shouldn’t exist in your romantic space.

Fight the loneliness by working hard over a year to build platonic friendships with groups of people. And then you’ll be able to reenter the arena of romance with a level head, unclouded. Don’t let loneliness cave your standards down. That almost never leads to anything lasting and satisfactory. I’m sorry for the pain you’re going through but the guy you say you’re considering will only severely worsen things, based on your descriptions.

Interesting, so the devices could be countries apart, hypothetically speaking? I had no idea if so.

Wait… I thought the whole premise of Syncthing is that the syncing devices need to be on the same Wi-Fi network. How do you configure it to not need this?