This is exactly the kind of thing that comes from emotional isolation and a wrecked self-esteem and a lack of proper, loving people close to you in life.
In healthy environments, people who love each other share with each other a lot of things without it feeling like a burden to anyone and they support each other and know how to just listen and be available. And no, I don’t know what that’s like either, I am just sharing the legends and stories.
A good parent might sometimes give their child tasks they aren’t ready to handle and let them make a mistake on purpose in order to teach them right from wrong.
A parent will simply let them persist in their mistake because it’s easier than making the mistake effort to correct them.
Why would I unload my emotional baggage on the people who caused it in the first place? That just sounds like more baggage.
Edit: This was supposed to be a joke. You can stop pointing out my complex trauma, thank you.
You wouldn’t, that why you have no idea how to comfort people.
This is exactly the kind of thing that comes from emotional isolation and a wrecked self-esteem and a lack of proper, loving people close to you in life.
In healthy environments, people who love each other share with each other a lot of things without it feeling like a burden to anyone and they support each other and know how to just listen and be available. And no, I don’t know what that’s like either, I am just sharing the legends and stories.
Gonna need a storage locker its gitten to big!
That’s where I keep mine! It’s safe there and no one is bothered by it. Except me 😫
Because it could be used as a teaching moment.
A good parent might sometimes give their child tasks they aren’t ready to handle and let them make a mistake on purpose in order to teach them right from wrong.
A parent will simply let them persist in their mistake because it’s easier than making the mistake effort to correct them.