I’ve experienced that criticism. To that I say I already know where I stand on these political issues and I’ll amplify (and have amplified) voices I want amplified. Regardless of how much I filter out, the dust on the upper crust of world news still makes its way to me in some way or another so I’ll always have a general idea of what’s going on. I just don’t need to know every tiny detail about the trillionth example of the dregs of human nature.

Living out from under that black cloud is truly liberating and I highly recommend anyone reading this to establish a filter list and block any communities that regularly kill your mood.

Android for sure. Thanks for the info.

Got any suggestions on how to set that up? I’ve known about RSS for a long time, I just never really understood it, I guess.

Its not a bad thing to close lemmy 5 mins after you open it. There’s a whole world outside of the internet.

I purged world news from my feeds years ago. I have no idea what’s going and I love it.

Here’s my filter list if you want it:

israel, iran, cybertruck, north korea, tesla, israeli, russia, belarus, palestine, palestinian, trump, biden, rogan, ukraine, china, politics, democrat, republican, america, usa, government, law, war, conflict, weapon, vance, biden, harris, election, kamala, dnc, rnc, conflict, tensions, elon, musk, greene, boebert, soldier, military, bomb, attack, conflict

There’s really not much that slips by this list in tandem with my community block list. Life on the internet is much more peaceful now.

If you’re gonna be a cunt, at least be good at it. This is some bush league shit.

That’s really sweet. :)

I’m not a programmer or anything so I have no experience with scripting at all. My job is supporting customers and their business phones. The script allows me to take a bunch of info from these dense readouts from the system and filter out only the relevant details so that if I need to ask another team for help I don’t have to copy/paste and format a bunch of different stuff manually. It just spits out the info I need from a bulk of mostly needless info.

It’s already saving me time so I’m glad I decided to just dive into this scripting stuff head first.

I wrote my first ever bash script to make my job less tedious and I’m happy. :) Time to refine and expand it now!

That doesn’t negate the value of having them participate in the conversation though.

Salesforce is so fucking AI-pilled its insane. I hate having to use their shit-tier CRM.

My roommate’s cat got her head through a plastic grocery bag handle then when she tried to back out of it it made a crinkly noise and she panicked. She bolted around the apartment for a solid minute with a grocery bag full of stuff in it causing absolute mayhem. The bag got caught on the leg of one of the kitchen chairs at high speed and she tore the handle right off the bag.

She ended up sitting on the arm of the couch with the handle of this plastic bag still around her neck. She looked like she had a cheapo lion’s mane. 🤣

The stone age = any time before 2005 apparently 🙄

“Un chat” is correct.

Masc. = un chat. Fem. = une chatte.

gum up the trolley

heaves

I find it difficult to pull myself out of long autopilot “drifts” is what I like to call them; where I’m not consciously electing to do anything in particular, I’m just moving through the day at the whim of whatever catches my attention. This is problematic because there are things that I actually want to do during the day; things I’ve been thinking about doing for a while like making music, DIY projects, anything really.

While I’m in these drifts I’m essentially lighting time on fire. It’s almost always completely wasted time which causes a problem. Once I’m able to snap out of the drift, I realize I’ve squandered time that I needed to dedicate to the things I actually wanted to do. This causes me immense stress and existential dread. Feels like I’m actually wasting my life.

If I snap out of it early, I’m stressed to cram in all the things I wanted to do and sometimes the stress is so overwhelming that I can’t think clearly enough to get anything done and I’ll just give up and fall into doomscrolling or some other time wasting thing like that.

This ties into my habits because when I didn’t have day-to-day chores and responsibilities integrated into these drifts it would all get pushed to the next day and I’d procrastinate heavily until it became a problem not only for me but for my wife as well.

I put some deep thought into what’s going on during these weird drift times and I realized a lot of what I’m doing is actually just force of habit, some good habits but mostly bad habits. I figured that since these habits are so strongly ingrained in me to the point that I often don’t even realize that I’m doing any of them in particular until after they’re done, I thought that if I could integrate the chores and other undesirable necessities of being a functioning person in a household into these drift states, I’d likely just end up getting all this shit done without putting too much brain power into tracking and remembering to do them, let alone the effort to commit to the task.

It took me about two months of painful dedication to burning these activities into my brain as new habits. When I’d be tempted to just put them off until later, I’d stop and pep talk myself into just fucking doing the thing, no exceptions or excuses and not allow myself to do anything else until it was done. Sometimes it was stuff as simple as just taking cups from my office down to the dishwasher. Other times it was more detailed and lengthy responsibilities that come with being a husband and a homeowner.

It was incredibly difficult for a while to force myself as a round peg through the square hole so to speak. Sometimes I just wanted to cry when I realized that I couldn’t just procrastinate and that I had committed myself to doing the dishes after every single meal. Sounds silly but when your mind is racing with all these things that you’re hyperfixated on (mostly music for me), the thought of losing time with that, even for 15 minutes to do dishes, can feel catastrophic.

What’s funny is that I didn’t even realize a specific moment when these new habits just clicked. My wife said one day “Man, you’ve done a complete 180 on this stuff. The house is clean, everything is done all the time, I can’t believe it”. In that moment I hadn’t even realized that I had actually achieved my goal. All of these previously loathsome tasks that drove me nuts were just integrated into my day and I wasn’t even thinking about them anymore.

I’d think about what I did previously first thing in the morning; make a pot of coffee. Where previously I’d just stand around scrolling waiting for my coffee, I noticed in hindsight that I had actually brought laundry downstairs on my way to the kitchen, started the pot, went out side and filled bird feeders and baths, finished up a small amount of dishes in the sink from movie night the night before, and cleaned the counter tops because they needed it - all on autopilot.

This isn’t a flawless process either. It requires its own maintenance. I’ll notice every couple of weeks that I’m leaving more cups and dishes on my desk in my office than I should be, or that I put off scooping the cat litter until the morning for no real reason and have to have my own little internal pep talk again to remind myself of my commitment to myself and also to my wife; that I’m an active participant in this household with shared responsibilites with my wife and that I’m not a slave to my mind’s weird thought process. I stop and I think about what I’m doing and why and that gives me the motivation to do the things I need to do.

The best part is that this is much more efficient than just living off the cuff and at the whim of my brain’s weirdness and that despite doing more chores than ever, I have way more free time to do the things I enjoy. I consider it one of the biggest wins of my life up to this point.

I guess I’m the exception.

I’m not medicated. The only control I have over my life is by doing exactly this; making things into habits. I’m a creature of habit and I’m on autopilot most of the time. Integrating daily challenges into that autopilot mode has changed my life.

You can use the Aurora store for apps. You can also use Google Play for apps if you’re not super privacy minded. The beauty of GrapheneOS is that it doesn’t have to be a locked down security privacy-minded OS if you don’t want it to be. It can be just as functional as anything else with very few exceptions.

It just gives you the option to pursue security and privacy if you want.

I haven’t had issues with my banking app either but I don’t use the NFC wallet functionality and never have. I prefer to just tap my physical card.

It’s like everyone is eating the same meal, even though there’s other restaurants everywhere.

So fucking apt. Thanks for framing this the way you did. Really clears up my thoughts on how to discuss this with others.

Running GrapheneOS on a Pixel is incredibly easy. You don’t need to be technical at all to get it set up. The instructions and the process are simple. Get on it!