Does anyone else find absolute silence difficult to deal with? In particular difficult to sleep in complete silence?

I think it started from a young age, being obsessed with music. Falling asleep with music.

As an adult, I still struggle with this and need some form of audio to drift off, be it music or something else.

More recently, I find stand-up comedy works best - it’s light-hearted and doesn’t require too much thought.

  • watson387@sopuli.xyz
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    1 year ago

    I have tinnitus, so absolute silence is never enjoyable for me. Music works extremely well; I fall asleep with the tv on.

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    1 year ago

    Buy yourself a white noise machine. I’ve been using one for almost 10 years, it’s helped my sleep routine immensely. I prefer it to something with talking because the fluctuations of something like comedy would disrupt me. Also, I think that concentrating on something like comedy makes me want to watch it and I would woke up.

    The next thing is an eye mask. Even if your room is mostly dark, I’ve found it helps me to stay asleep.

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    1 year ago

    As a teen, I needed complete silence/darkness to sleep well. Then I met my now-wife, who needed a TV on to sleep well.
    It took a while, but we eventually compromised on a fan for background noise.

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    1 year ago

    Try weed. Not right before sleep but a bit earlier, while watching those stand-ups for example.

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    1 year ago

    Try a fan. And this one’s weird, but I have an analog clock in my room and the rhythmic ticking helps me sleep.

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      1 year ago

      I know were you are coming from and I know a few people who have a clock in the room and sleep… but I just can’t… the rhythmic ticking drives me crazy haha

      podcast or audio books are my go to - sometimes I’m stuck on the same chapter for weeks

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        1 year ago

        I can’t handle the constant having to rewind and going wait did I already listen to this last night? that happens if I listen to podcasts or audiobooks to sleep.

        Maybe I should just find a podcast I don’t care about actually hearing everything in that I could use for sleep.

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    1 year ago

    Yep. I also have a bit of tinnitus so I prefer a bit of sound. Usually I play an episode of Frasier, Mom or Modern Family. Usually before the end of the episode I’m sleeping.

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      1 year ago

      Do…do you live in my house? I will say that I tend to wake up to hear tossed salads and scrambled eggs though and shut off the TV when I can just roll back over and be asleep though.

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    1 year ago

    I usually fall asleep to a podcast. One that is interesting, but not so interesting that it’ll keep me up. A history podcast or something like that.

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      1 year ago

      I do this too. Unmade Podcast is my sleeping podcast. 2 dudes talking podcast. It’s a little hard without it.

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        1 year ago

        I quite like We Have Ways podcast, although they never balance their mics so one of them ends up blasting my ears waking me up while you can’t hear the other one at low volume 😂