for me this meme is the opposite, always them talking about how they love you but they love their ex more.

but what do i know, i’ve never gone back to an ex. when I’m done I’m done.

god i miss her

Yes, they are saying it. Stick your head in the sand all you want. I’ve seen dozens and dozens of tiktoks saying she should be set free. they are all over. with 1000s and 10,000s of likes and shares.

no, because that’s gay.

and big strong straight men never read history, they think their deep original profound thoughts that stand for all time by themselves, in their bedroom, after masturbating.

you missed the part where the meta physicians claim what they aren’t doing is metaphysics but science and logic, or something… and their inability to admit or understand that any logic of science is a metaphysical system…

history of philosophy is often a lot of finger pointing and posturing about ‘my philosophy isn’t metaphysics! it’s common sense!’

personally I’m more interested in the implications of idealism as a system in practice, but i’m a filthy pragmatist interested in the real world as it is, not as it ought to be.

yeah but human beings are so arrogant they want to believe that nothing exists without them perceiving it.

people like to make an argument out of it, but what they don’t acknowledge is the arrogance of the idea nothing exists outside your perception, which basically makes you into a god-like figure it your own reality.

and nobody likes to talk about how social media has warped so many people’s brains into this way of thinking, that previously they had no access to because they were boxed in but a reality that didn’t let them sit on their ass and think delusional thoughts hours a day. Used to be only weirdo philosophy people did that, now it’s what your average person does with their social media feed.

lots of people are saying she should be set free. that’s why the case is so big on social media. it’s been drivin by insane weirdo women who think the husband did it and they have a massive massive following on tiktok.

he’s easy to make fun of. he’s hyberbolic and hypocritical

and he’s ‘controversial’. the press can’t get enough of building him up into this big figure, when he’s anything but, but when they do they weirdly fixate on how ‘hunky’ he is, which is even more bizarre.

lots of people on the internet are arguing she is innocent, some here in this thread are implying it.

he’s also got drug abuse problems and serious mental illness that trigger the ‘i can fix him’ instinct

coordinate systems aren’t real. silly.

you should use your IM-AG-IN-A-TION! WOOOO! YAY!

trial is over. she will likely have another trial. we won’t know until end of Sept when the next hearing for her case is set.

it’s possible a plea deal could be offered, but unlikely.

also this guy is spreading lies. the evidence is clear she did it, and she confessed. there was no despute as to her guilt in murdering her children.

the issue is whether she can be held criminally liable for first degree murder. if the charges had been manslaughter or something else, it would have been a slam dunk conviction. but due to her mental state at the time, it’s questionable if she was capable/committed first degree, or premeditated, murder.

but people don’t want to talk about the legal issues in the case… they just want to push the emotional bullshit that she was absolutely innocent, or absolutely guilty, and there can’t be anything in-between. and lots and lots of people like the db0 user commenting here are spreading lies about the case to push their political agenda.

to the point that many of the TikTok moms who support her innocence are working entirely outside of the factual evidence of the case. which is also more evidence of how social media itself is causing psychosis in many folks, as it’s well-documented already how social media amplifies delusional and paranoid thinking.

it’s a huge case because it’s a proxy for the gender war and extremists on both sides have trumpted it as loud as they possibly can. like the bozos here pushing false claims about the evidence.

most normal folks think she’s nuts and should be jailed like anyone else who kills her kids.

the insane people think she should be set free and isn’t guilty, even though she confessed and all the evidence is clear she did the crime. and many of them claim it was the dad that did it because only men can be evil, and if she did do it, he forced her to do it with psychic powers.

the subtle of court case, whether she is criminally liable for her actions, is completely lost the vast majority of folks, especially the insane people.

they weren’t lying for your sake. probably for their friends/family.

nah, you just need to go on the offensive when the lies fall apart and never admit fault.

works all the time.

better than you being someone else’s biological son, which is not uncommon.

Lying is socially expedient.

It’s easier on every front and makes everyone happier. That’s why people do it.

The negative consequences of it are often far off and in the future. In that way it’s sort of like having poor life habits… you don’t pay the consequences till much later.

And the negative social consequences for being truthful are usually immediate.

wild to me you don’t?

I don’t know about you, but my parents were very stupid people and basically everything in their life was a lie, so it made no sense to every tell them the truth about anything. Any remotely truthful thing said to them would result in them freaking out and screaming. so eventually I just learned lie to them all the time and it was just easier and our relationship was a lot more chill. I figured this out probably around 15/16 and kept it up until they died. I never had a honest conversation with my parents my entire life since I was like 14.

and a lot of people live their lives that way. not everyone, sure. I’m truthful to people who aren’t my family, but even then it often doesn’t go over well because well, most folks only want to hear comforting lies, and they adore people that lie to them far more than they adore people who are truthful. I’ve also been on the flipside in a ‘good’ relationship, that was all built on the other person constantly lying to me.

Not everyone can hear people’s critical/negative opinions of them are not take it personally. Like, the among of people I’ve had that kind of relationship with is probably less than 10. But people I have known who require you to lie to them (or other people) to maintain a relationship with them or there is never going to be a relationship? 100s. Like most of my friendships/relationships have ended because I told them the truth or found out they were lying to me about something major, and every single time do you think the other person thinks they were the problem? No. I was the problem.

Most social relationships are entirely built on lies and could not function without them, including intimate ones between friends and family.

yes, but you can’t convince people of that if they deny gravity is real.

the issue we have these days is gravity deniers get together and egg each other on in their delusions and create ever more elaborate theories to defend their denial of reality.

hell, many lemmy instances are created specifically for that purpose… because their theories often put that at odds with the general public.